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First Presbyterian Church of Pittsford

Director of Family Ministry

Pittsford,
New York
First Presbyterian Church of Pittsford, a 217-year-old, theologically “purple” congregation just outside Rochester, NY, is seeking a Director of Family Ministry to lead its birth-through-high-school ministry. Reporting to Lead Pastor Aaron Neff, this role directly leads middle and high school youth programming (roughly 60% of the role) while providing supervisory oversight of the church’s Director of Children’s Ministry (roughly 40%), casting a unified vision for family discipleship across all ages. The ideal candidate is a relational leader with significant ministry experience who thrives on recruiting and developing volunteers, equipping parents as the primary disciplers of their own children, and building genuine connections with students and families within a warm, tight-knit staff culture.

Why We Love This Opportunity

This search stands out because of the trust Pastor Aaron Neff and the staff have already built — a warm, tight-knit team operating with genuine autonomy instead of micromanagement. First Presbyterian Church of Pittsford is in the middle of an intentional shift from program-heavy ministry to relationship-driven discipleship, which means this role has real room to build something lasting rather than just maintain what exists.

A great match for this position would be:

  • A relational leader who leads with warmth and high energy rather than administration, and who genuinely enjoys being with middle and high schoolers.
  • Someone looking for a multi-year, long-term ministry home — not a stepping-stone role.
  • A proactive volunteer recruiter and developer who would rather build a team of leaders than run every program personally.
  • A collaborative team player who thrives working side-by-side with Children’s Ministry and pastoral staff in a high-trust, low-micromanagement environment.
  • Someone with a genuine sense of calling to ministry in a “purple,” theologically and politically mixed congregation in the post-Christian Northeast.

About This Organization

First Presbyterian Church of Pittsford is a 217-year-old congregation founded in 1809, located in the historic village of Pittsford, New York, a suburb of Rochester. 

First Presbyterian belongs to the Presbyterian Church (USA) denomination and is governed by an elder-led Session alongside a Board of Trustees. Culturally, it operates as a deliberately “purple” (politically and theologically mixed) “big tent” congregation that intentionally builds unity across differences rather than taking public stances on divisive issues. Under Lead Pastor Aaron Neff’s leadership, the church is actively transitioning from program-heavy administration toward relational, personal discipleship. Core ministries include local and international mission partnerships, a Wednesday night intergenerational “Logos” family program, and a newly acquired 7-acre second campus property designated for student and community outreach.

Location

Pittsford is a historic canal village just southeast of Rochester, part of a trio locals call “the three Ps” — Pittsford, Perinton, and Penfield — widely regarded as the region’s premier suburbs. The 200-year-old village center sits along the Erie Canal at Schoen Place, a walkable strip of restaurants and shops next to the canal towpath, and downtown Rochester is a straightforward 15-20 minute drive, so residents get small-town character without giving up access to the city’s hospitals, universities, and cultural institutions, including the Eastman School of Music.

It’s a family-oriented community with a strong public school district (five elementary schools and two high schools) and extensive parkland, including Mendon Ponds Park’s 2,500-plus acres of trails. St. John Fisher University hosts the Buffalo Bills’ annual training camp each summer, and it’s common to see players walking through the village. Pittsford is also one of the more upscale, sought-after suburbs in the Rochester region — but the draw for most people who move here isn’t the real estate, it’s the close-knit, walkable feel of a small village that’s still just minutes from everything a bigger city offers.

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